Oh, I find that there's one person out there meant for you business annoying too. That sets people up for failure. The smallest little conflict and it's oh, I guess you're not "the one." I'm sure you there's any number of people you can find happiness with, if you're willing to work at it. I think you need to start with basic compatibility and go from there.
The assumption that you'll find one person to be with and it'll flowers and rainbows all the time is probably responsible for more than it's share of break-ups.
Word. Admittedly the flowers and rainbows are there, but they're usually interspersed with periods of wanting to strangle the other individual for one reason or another. That's normal. That's the way family works. You know you've got "the one" (or "a one," anyway) is when the good stuff seriously outweighs the irritating/difficult stuff. :)
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Date: 2009-01-11 11:24 pm (UTC)From:The assumption that you'll find one person to be with and it'll flowers and rainbows all the time is probably responsible for more than it's share of break-ups.
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